Sex Positive? Ethically Non Monogamous? Bi-Sexual? Into BDSM? Polyamorous?

How do you meet your sexual equal? Fetish websites are creepy and the bar scene is just not your thing! Sure there are dating sites and apps for kinky people but those put you at risk of exposing your kinks to the world.

Does the stress of telling someone you're kinky on the first date terrify you? We’re here to help you. Kinky Speed Dating puts a kinky twist on the concept of Speed Dating. We allow you to be your true self with people that are just as kinky as you!

No Judgement
No Judgement
Kinky Speed Dating is a safe space. You shouldn’t be afraid to tell your potential partner about your kinks and fetishes. We are trying to help you find that perfect partner in kink, as well in life.
We All Have Kinks
We All Have Kinks
We all have kinks. Some of us like to be spanked, some of us like it hard and fast. Some like to be tied up and whipped, while others like feet worshiping. It’s all okay in our eyes.
August 17 River Rock Lounge @ Sportsmen's Lodge
Address: 12825 Ventura Blvd, Studio City, CA 91604
Start time 8pm SHARP
Located at the legendary Sportsman's Lodge in Sherman Oaks, dating will take place in the beautiful outdoor patio.
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How Does Kinky Speed Dating Work?

Once you’ve signed up for Kinky Speed dating you will be sent a link to fill out a confidential form to help us get to know you better, and hopefully help you find a match a bit easier. We will take your answers and try our best to see if there is a good match for you. At some point in the evening, we will make sure you and the special match say hello to each other. 

On the night of the speed dating we will meet promptly at 8pm. When you check in, you will be given a “match card.” This is where you will fill out any information about your potential dates. 

After our quick announcement you will be assigned your table to sit at and the speed dating will begin. Each date will last for 5 min. We feel this is just the right amount of time to get to know each other. Remember, it’s okay to let the person that you’re "dating" about your kinks and fetishes. Hopefully you’ll meet that special someone that shares some of  your kinks. 

After speed dating is over you’ll return your “match cards” to your host. Within 72 we will send you an e-mail letting you know who would like to meet you. 

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